We have all heard of “Kill them with kindness” and “Keep your friends close and keep your enemies closer”. Beyoncé even said “The best revenge is your paper”! There is a consensus out there that success and winning is the best way to stunt on your haters. A hater’s job is to want to see you fail but by proving them wrong, you use them as fuel to get what you want and where you want to be.
We all know people that smile in your face and are the first to try to stab you in the back when you are not looking. Or that one person that goes out their way to sabotage your operation. It is apart of the game when trying to reach your goals.
If it was easy the saying goes, “Everybody would do it”.
However, it is all about your perspective on your naysayers and people who wish you ill will.
First off, it is important to know that people do not hate on others for no reason. They see something in you, that they just do not see in themselves. In order to compensate for that, they attack, are negative or try to steer you off your path to success. A person on the road to success has to identify these people and use them to their benefit.
How you ask? Well every time they say you can’t, you have to change your course to make it happen and prove them wrong. Every time they close a door or tell others to close doors on you, you have to knock on 1000 more. In the end, you would have effectively done the opposite of what they wanted and find yourself on a clear path to success. You might have even picked up a new skill or two playing dodge ball with your haters.
Go harder, play smarter and most importantly never give up. The best revenge is always success!